"Flash" anyone???? Contemplating New Website - Need your help!

HELP!!!!!!! Okay - I really need everyone's input on this. I LOVE my website but there are a few things that I would like to tweak. I will let you in on a little secret...my husband is my web designer (that is why it looks so good!!) but it is not his full time job so his time available to do my extremely long "to do" list just doesn't come easy. So to make a long story short, I have found two possible designs that I am just loving - they are "flash" sites so they are very different from my existing site. What I need from all of you guys is feedback...what do you think of my site now (do you love it?) or should I get with the program and move on up to a "Flash" site! The new site would allow for larger images, home page slide show, a calender, and most importrantly an actual shopping cart on my site set up with individual proofing galleries. WHY am I asking you! Because I value your opinion and you are what makes my business sucessfull!!!!!!!

Here are links to the two designs I am considering:

www.photopalma.com

www.annabethbrooksphotography.com

Please email me from my website and let me know what you think! I am really hoping to get a lot of feedback on this one - can you tell I am having a hard time deciding what to do!

Thank you!!!!